Mrs. Illinois International 2009

On Friday, May 1, 2009, I was invited to speak at the Galatia First Baptist Church for their Mexico themed Mother's Day Dinner. Everyone was so festive! We had a wonderful meal prepared by a great all-male cooking team, great music by the Praise Team, and fantastic fellowship with the women in attendance. I spoke with the large group about Go RED, getting registered online, and going for their heart health check-up as soon as possible. I shared the story of my journey in becoming Mrs. Illinois International 2009 and my Relationship Education platform that help to get me there. With some wonderful volunteers, we discussed what we "like" about ourselves and what the social expectation is for "modesty" -- which in turn actually keeps us from growing and being confident. In therapy, I focus on helping women to be complimentary of themselves both physically and emotionally, their children, and other women because we help each other grow individually and relationally when we are encouraging. In the end, the fastest route to being satisfied in a relationship is being satisfied with ourselves.

Our beautifully courageous volunteers telling about themselves. They did a great job!

The totally appreciated team of cooks and servers for the evening.

Brandi Hankins, Mother's Day Dinner coordinator, me, her mother and two daughters. I so very much appreciated Brandi's invitation to come and speak to this group of women.